She may challenge you and put you on the spot about why you’re asking about this sensitive subject.
The absolute worst things you can do are apologize or try to explain why you didn’t mean to be “weird”.
Deep down though, women want and desire sex with the right person, just like men.
Sexual intimacy is at the core of our psychological needs.
” Now if you’re naturally discussing a related topic like The movie, past relationships / hookups / dates, online dating, or first kisses — then take that opportunity to move into more intimate topics.
We all do it, it’s not a big deal.” As I awaited the wrath of three women, I was surprised to hear them laughing and sharing their opinions.
With a tipsy grin I shot back, “Oh please, we’re all adults here.
I stumbled over my words trying to explain myself, “Umm.. I’m sorry if it came off like that.” They told me how it weird and they weren’t going to answer a question like that. They initially gave me the same attitude, but this time the liquid courage gave me a comeback.
All you’re going to do is reinforce that this subject is shameful and wrong.
Instead, you want her to feel this is something natural, normal, and FUN to talk about. Mine was horrible…I remember being so nervous that when I first went in to kiss her, I shoulder checked her instead.
So how do you approach the topic of sex tastefully? Stop waiting for permission to move into intimate topics.