You get a text that seems like it was meant for someone else."Baby" is code for "I think wearing puka shell necklaces is cool, and no matter where we go, I'm secretly going to do coke in the bathroom."12.
If he is still “best friends” with his ex while trying to pursue a relationship with you, you're getting duped. The people you surround yourself with should lift you up and make you feel your best.
Now, this happens way too often in the world of casual hookups, and it’s a difficult one to decode.
If you just want to hook up when you're drunk, and he wants the same, then more power to you both.
Trust me, you have more value than someone who just services a guy. Guy or girl, if you catch your partner in a lie more than once, there is no real reason to keep the relationship going.
Someone who is a liar is probably a consistent and pathological liar.
The only reason two exes are continuing contact is because either one or both of them sees a possibility of getting back together. Anything less is something you just don’t need in your life. This guy will tell you, “I’ll take you out,” or “I’ll introduce you to my friends.”Yet every time you hang out, it’s alone in bed together.