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On the left, you should see a section labeled Visibility Options. You can still contact people when your profile is hidden but they won’t be able to look at your profile so that sort of defeats the purpose (so remember to make yourself visible if you start contacting people).
There several things hiding your profile do but primarily it removes you from search results.
Most people look at a large number of profile but contact very few (or sometimes none at all).
Don’t take it personally and if you think she’s interesting why not contact her? In my online dating guide I discuss this in great detail in my section on an absence of responses.
The only people you can be sure pay are those with a green background around their profile. A profile highlighted in green is someone who has signed up for the platinum package.