This will tell you if they are willing to try marriage counseling and couples therapy to save their marriage first or go straight for divorce. This can tell you just how resourceful they are and if they give up easily. This is a question you need to talk about before marriage and an important one. This is going to allow you to know how important their family is to them. This can show you how they treat their friends and people that they care about. Think of the song “Live like you were dying” if you don’t know the song, look up the lyrics, it’s actually quite meaningful. What would you do if you were stranded on an island and there was nothing to eat? Call it Karma or the golden rule, the question is do they believe that you reap what you sew? Are they actively looking for love or is it a situation where life is good where I am right now but if love were to come along, I’m ready for it type thing. Things involving family and very close friends, effect people differently and leave certain issues with them emotionally, mentally, and on their soul. If we were to have kids what faith would you wish them to be raised in yours or mine (if you come from different faiths)? this can tell you what kind of weather and weather related activities they like. This will give you an insight into their sense of humor.
This is going to allow you to understand how they see people, do they get to know them first before passing judgement or are they quick to judge. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? This question is interesting; do they live life or just go through the motions? This will tell you if they are overly emotional or maybe they hold back their feelings some. What roles do love and affection play in your life? An interesting question but could show you an insight into their ideology and outlook on life. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about? Our advice if it’s the latter, break it off and don’t look back. This could tell you if they are greedy, to giving, or a moderate who will save some, use some, and give some. This is going to tell you if they made a mistake once or they continually break the law. Is this something that they find embarrassing or just bad etiquette? If you won the lottery, what would you do with your money? This may not be drugs or alcohol or gambling either, there are many forms of addiction. In search of activities that will boost the fun on that very special day and have people entertained?Then you can start with a list of funny newlywed game questions. This is a good one; do they live in the real world or spend it on social media on the computer?