There are links below the post to the other two parts.] Female game consists of three parts or stages: While these general stages apply to all women, a woman's age, experience and eligibility should factor heavily into her approach to dating if she wants to eventually find a man to settle down with.Therefore, various aspects of these three stages - or the components of each one - are more or less important at different times in a woman's life.While most of my MBA classmates developed expertise in one field or another that earned them millions, my expertise has been... • Be energetic and adventurous, in the bedroom and out.• Be doggedly attentive and affectionate -- do things for women, from grocery shopping to rubbing their tired feet to being a sociable party companion and more. But even if not, she has something to say and longs to be heard. Next time, we'll talk about sex and money, and start talking about some advice for women over 50 in the dating world.Online dating isn't something to fear even if you haven't dated for years I've been dating pretty much since I was 49. (I'll let you do the math -- I don't like saying my age out loud.) The following is stated neither with gushing pride nor cowering shame: During those past 13 years, I've had more than 1,000 dates with more than 300 different women. There are things men and women can take going into this dating abyss, but let's start with advice for you (older) guys, in reverse order of importance • Funny is good. Cynical and bitter might work if you're a dark and complicated graduate student.
[This is the third of a three-part series that describes how to focus your dating efforts in your teens, twenties and thirties.
I track the conversation -- I'm not leaping from one topic to another.
But even if you don't like listening, LISTEN anyway. • First, you're not as fascinating as you think you are. I don't care if you're Jon Hamm or Joe Scarborough or the head of an investment bank or ambassador to Ghana.
Take it all in, and I pray that Michelle's words of wisdom will help keep you on the straight and narrow path to a blessed life in the Lord.
REALITY CHECK Of the 10 mistakes, what is the area that most women struggle with?
• But by far the most important advice I can give is LISTEN! Yes, money is important (I don't have much, so I can only assume from what I've heard), and being attractive is great (I'm not Clooney but I try my best.) But listening trumps them all. Being genuinely interested in hearing about their histories, their successes, their disappointments, their journeys yet to take. • And fourth, listening is an amazingly under-appreciated talent. Hearing someone's story and details about their life is what it's all about, as far as I'm concerned.