For one reason or another they assume that the girl is also a virgin.Then – they find out that she is not as “pure” and “innocent” as they are, and as they thought she would be. In that situation, a typical guy, who doesn’t have any sexual experience and who is still a virgin, finds it really difficult to get used to the idea that the girl is not as “clean” and innocent as he is.It bothers him that they are not “equal” that way, and he often can’t help but be upset by the fact that another guy has touched her before him or that she simply has more sexual experience than he does. He realizes that he can’t blame the girl for anything (unless she is known to be a total slut who slept around with dozens of guys), and that she really didn’t do anything wrong by simply having had a few dating and sexual experience in the past. He starts “interrogating” the girl, asking her all kinds of invasive questions about her past sex life out of his overwhelming curiosity and jealousy, but this only makes things worse and makes him even angrier and more frustrated – primarily with himself and his inability to conquer his feelings toward the girl’s sexual past and the fact that she is not a virgin like he is, especially if the girl answers his questions. First, a guy who is a virgin might feel that it’s somewhat unfair that he is “pure” but the girl is not.
You must stop seeking and expecting perfection from every aspect of your dating situation and of the girl you are with.She might teach you a few things that you wouldn’t have learned from a girl who has never been with a man before.And be assured that it doesn’t help doing it for the first time with a girl who, like you, doesn’t have any experience and doesn’t know what she is doing.Most people use it to describe a woman who tends toward promiscuity. That’s why the term developed into its more casual moniker: daddy issues. There are a lot of reasons a woman might choose to have multiple sex partners or be indiscriminate about the partners she chooses, but it’s not necessarily related to having issues with her father. The term “daddy issues” was coined in Carl Jung’s theory called “The Electra Complex.” This is when a girl displays a form of psychosexual competition with her mother for possession of her father.Benefit from being with your first sexual partner by learning and gaining an experience of your own.