She either ignored or declined interest from men who said they were only interested in hook-ups, or casual sex.After a first date on Halloween with her current boyfriend, the couple spent a few weeks getting to know each other before making a serious commitment.“It is very hard to get a sense of personal chemistry from an online dating profile," he says.Dating apps that don't ask you to make a detailed profile "may save people a lot of wasted time and energy.” Karen Levy, a 45-year-old pet-care entrepreneur in Atlanta, also likes the way Tinder allows users to make quick decisions. This site focuses on singles with Asian backgrounds.Levy says she's willing to branch out beyond her religion.She’s used Jewish dating sites like JDate in the past, but is now open to looking for men who share her interests, if not her background.
“That was something I grew up with, but religion has become less important" than other things, like having a similar lifestyle.
Mobile apps speed up the meeting process so singles can arrange a call or date quickly, Eastwick says.
Too much information about a potential date may be distracting, he says.
Gestures, dress, and facial expressions may be better cues for chemistry than text messages.
So “even if you communicate via Skype, body language is lost.” Singles may project their own issues, needs, or feelings onto the images they see on profiles.
She also recently downloaded JSwipe, a similar app for Jewish singles. If you are chatting [online] with people too long, you have too many expectations.” While location and speed may be everything for some singles, other newer dating sites are narrowing the field in a different way. People who have strong political, theological, or social viewpoints tend to want to meet someone who falls in line with their views, says Misha ben-David, a rabbi and licensed counselor also based in Austin.